Not everyone should stay

Back in high school, I was one of those really shy ones. I hated speaking in public and found myself being prey for bullies, along the way, I made friends with some girls who were FRE-ENEMIES but my internal representation was alien to that word so I found myself repeatedly giving them excuses even when it had become apparent that they were not for me.

I held on to one particular friendship until it almost broke me and at that point I made a decision and that was one of the first steps towards changing my life.

You see God knows who belongs with us and who doesn’t. He sees the heart of mankind and knows what we are capable of doing to one another

When he sees someone is NOT for you; He would guide you through different ways, are you going to listen?

Many times we are the cause of our pain as we hold on to people undeserving of our time or love. We let them into our heart- a place they have no business getting into and the most annoying part is we cling to them even when we can see they enjoy bringing us pain.

What is the worth of your mind to you? How valuable do you feel your emotional health is?

Let go of whoever is NOT serving you on your path.

Surround yourself with people who feed you and nurture your heart and NOT those who feed off you without mercy thus leaving you bankrupt.

Be careful of those you let into the personal space of your HEART and you will be the better for it.

With Love

The Mind Doctor

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